Most of the big women are not confident enough to be in love with someone, actually, weight is not as important as you thought in a relationship. More than 50% of Americans are overweight, but they can still find their love and enjoy their life.
If you cannot change your attitude and be confident, it’s really hard for you to attract guys and have a relationship with guys.
Here are some advice on how to increase big women’s dating confidence.
1. Accept yourself
Self-acceptance is the first step in developing confidence. Try to love and accept everything about yourself. Only when you appreciate yourself will other people appreciate you. Don’t care too much on what others say, because not everyone likes you, as well as not everyone you like. You can also increase your self-confidence by looking yourself at the mirror everyday and telling yourself ‘you are the best’. We all know that plus sized women were topics of many ancient painting and art works, and they were also the symbol of divine feminine.
2. Don’t care too much about other people’s opinions.
What will you do if you get some negative comments from other people? What you should do is to be yourself and change something bad if necessary. Everyone is special, don’t change your style only according to other people’s opinions. You should know that no one in the world knows you better than you do. Certainly, it dosen’t mean you cannot change anything about yourself, you can change into a new style or something different like, a new dressing style, a new way to communicate with others if you like.
3. Real and honest
Nothing is important than honesty, so never put on a skinny and charming photo to attract guys. We cannot deny that a beautiful photo is more attrctive than the photo of a fat girl, but you should know that your partner will be disappointed in you while dating outside. You’d better put your real photo and information on the website. Only in this way can you attract someone really appreciate you and never mind your body shape.
4. Dress appropriately
Dressing well for dating is always a priority. You should know what kind of clothes look good on you, choose clothes that makes you look good and feel comfortable. Appropriate clothing is helpful to show your beautiful curve and increase your confidence. The first impression of dating is very important, try your best to get yourself remembered.
5. Don’t be afraid to be rejected
If you are an online dating site user, don’t be afraid to be rejected, because everyone can be rejected by others. Being rejected is a way for you to improve yourself and meet the right one. You should never dwell in your past negative experience and never get stuck in a relationship with someone you don’t like.
6. Show your own advantages
The best way to forget your disadvantages is focusing on your advantages. You may fatter than some people, but there are some parts are more beautiful than others’s. Your beautiful eyes, hands and curves are so attractive. So, why not dress up for a date and make yourself attractive and charming?